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Very rarely was anything of substance shared there and more or less, everyone had the same opportunity to meet and connect with others.
After the initial introductory emails, when communication gets a little more relaxed, I tend to end messages with a list of questions (and then I judge their responses).
Consider doing the same: The following is a random sampling of questions I might ask.
Obviously I'm not so cheesy as to ask the same questions of everyone. Allows me to figure out, if we ever dated to the point of sleepovers, whether she'd want to get up and go jogging at 9 A. I could write an answer to this question that would last pages and pages. This question is less of a test than pure curiosity at work. If she says "the water" she may be into surfing or kayaking or a similar sexy sport. I'm not a secret social worker compiling stats on abused children.
After the fall of My Space, I eventually created my Ok Cupid account.
I really got into the quizzes that members could take. Ok Cupid prides themselves on the ability to match people based on responses to their surveys.OK, not really, but there is something to be said for coming up with more than "Hey [Insert name of hopefully non-psycho guy here]" for the first moment of contact.